Do most men love to look at and ''get into'' disgusting, i mean really degrading ?

people, not just men, like , so what ? you can't control what someone likes ually, so if you can't make peace with it then you need to dump him and move on, sound like you are blaming for this failing relationship, isn't the problem it's you and him, no chemistry from the looks of it and i'm sorry but you are a prude, the fact you have to stress you arn't just screams the opposite , i think you have the deep problem tbh not him and not ,